"Unexpected Surprises" - Friday Talking Circle

In today's gathering we discussed multiple topics but some of the highlights were the process of trying to plan vs allowing and letting things flow.  The way it unfolded was in a manner of "unexpected surprises".  There may be plans with a particular goal or focus or intention, but the route or timing to get there may be different than anticipated.  What ways are there to manage experiencing unexpected surprises?  Are there any unique or specific quotes that resonate and assist navigating the experience?  Are expectations useful at all?  

One exercising we did was personal storytelling.  Each person in the circle shared there first job/work experience.  Perhaps have a moment or two to reflect on your first job/work experience.  What feelings come up?  Are there any benefits or things learned that are with you today?  Was it fun?  What purpose did it serve if any?